It's only a couple of my cousins I know who, unfortunately, didn't have a choice to plan for their marriages but were lucky to have a husband who agreed to plan for their matrimonial life. How should they live, with or without in laws, the house rules, they both should be out to work or not, how many children should they have, their education and financial planning etc.
One of them was deaf. She was put into marriage to a man with the same disability and was a lot older than her. She loved to have children but her husband didn't have the ability for that. She was a very sweet girl, she tried her best to keep the relationship but finally broke with him and married her husband's best friend who was also deaf but from different sect(sunni). Her husband supported her at every moment especially in the period of cut off from her own family. Now they have very cute talking triplets.
The other one (her youngest sister) was married in a Punjabi family. He was and is a perfect gentleman. They never knew each other but after marriage, they both had nice understanding. They both agreed to have only one child, girl or a boy doesn't matter, so they had a girl. They both worked for their better future of their only child. About seven years ago, they decided to return home as her husband wanted to spend time his parents too.
Both these families are living a peaceful life. Before marriage they were strangers. After marraige, they became the best friends to each other. They have nice terms with their families and everyone but they don't listen to anyone when it comes to do something for their own family. They sit together and get advice from each other. They best thing these couple do is that they give importance to each other.
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